Something that may be hard
to see is the fact that you have the choice to not let others ruin your day. It’s different to ignore the negative minds of others, especially when they are somene who you are close too.
We all know people who are like this. They simply are just negative and they put all of their bad thoughts onto other people. Sometimes on purpose, and other times they don’t even realize. They could just be having a bad day, so they are acting out on their emotions.
But you could be having a great day. And all those little negative comments could slowly ruin your day, to the point where you are miserable. Why does this happen? How can we prevent this?
When you are feeling like someone is bringing you down,
You can jusy tell them kindly something along the lines of: “I’m sorry you feel this way, But I dissagree.” And you could just walk away after that. If they are a friend of yours, or someone who you really care about, you could ask them whats wrong and see if you could help. That would be a win-win for both of you!!
But if they do not deserve your time, then don’t give it to them.
Remember if you feel someone negatively affecting you, stop and think about it. Think about whether or not its even worth getting upset over. And remember how you felt before they made any comments.
These people are having their own issues that they have to deal with. You do not deserve to carry their burdens. They arent going to become your problem.
Life has it’s up’s and downs. There will be many days and many people like this that you will come across. Once you get into the habit of not letting others bring you down, and you take full control of all your emotions. You will feel so much greater. Your days will be fabulous!
Right now, you should make a promise to yourself to not let any negative people ruin your day. Start off your days with this mindset and things will get better. It can be hard at first, but the effort is always worth it.
“You cannot expect to live a positive life if you hang with negative people.”
― Joel Osteen
If you guys want to read an article on negative thoughts, which kind of goes hand in hand with this post, check it out HERE!!
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